My boyfriend jsut broke up with me and because he found out i cheated on him how do i get him back?

ok my boyfriend just broke up with me because i cheated on him and he found out.... i love him with all my hearts and i need him in my life.... i need to find a way to get him back!!!My boyfriend jsut broke up with me and because he found out i cheated on him how do i get him back?
Guys don't get back with girls after a girl cheats. Girls do get back with guys if a guy cheats. Guys don't see a ';second chance'; for you. They see it as a example of your poor values; which in most cases proves to be true.My boyfriend jsut broke up with me and because he found out i cheated on him how do i get him back?
How can you love someone and F@#K someone else...?





Let him be... you've just taken a part of his humanity, now there is another cold hearted person in the world.
I dumped my ex for the SAME reason...we were apart a month and she was fooling around with someone--when she tried to get back with me(it lasted like 2 days) and she told me I dropped her on the spot---never again will i ever take her back
you had it coming to you!!!!
you cheated on him you dont deserve to have him back in the future keep your legs closed
if he wants you back he'll come back. but there is no excuse for cheating on someone. Once trust is gone, love won't be there soon after
um if u love someone...u dont cheat on them. even if u do get him back i dont think he would ever trust u again...and whats a relationship without trust?





sorry ...but good luck!
you dont you deserve to lose him now he can go find a girl that will be good to him
Well, you don't deserve him cuz you cheated on him. Noone should put up with anyone cheating. If my boyfriend cheated on me, he's gone in the trash in an instant. Cheating is for people who don't care about love, and who just want to throw their love away, and have sex with anything that gets hard or moves. I hope he doesn't get back with you, and I hope he realizes he can find a better woman who WON'T cheat on him.
y did u cheated on him ven u luved him.thr must b a reason........talk to him n tell him everything may b he ll gt convinced n come bck..........n god forbid if it didnt clicked dnt ruin urself after him........if u really love him he ll come bck
Firstly, if you love him so much why did you cheat on him?





Secondly, if he loves you as much as you love him, he will forgive you.





EDIT :: You're 15, probably not in love. Hate to tell you. You just miss what you had. You'll get over it and find someone you really love when you're older.
okay so you broke his trust.


you need to regain it.





dont call him or talk to him TOO much or you'll seem to stalkerish and needy. but try talking to him like once saying how you're really sorry and do something BIG that will impress him. like set up a romantic night [surprise] or something like that. if he doesnt go for it, then leave him alone for a while.





if he really doesnt wanna get back together, u should leave him alone. you'll find someone else.





trust me i really miss my ex too but i think hes a player so yeah i dont like him anymore -___-
if you loved him with all your heart you wouldnt have


cheated on him..your scum. i'm sorry, but you aree,


you expect him to be witch you after you cheated on


him? who do you think you are? you dont deserve him.





you may not like what i'm saying, but it's true.


someone needs to let you know.
If you need him so bad why you cheat. I am sorry but If I was him I would have done the same thing.. Sound like you just got caught and took him fore granted......
wow you just want what you want when you want it huh. Well it doesn't work like that. Welcome to the real world.
um if you cheated on him then you obviously dont love him and you are a sl*t to do that
You made two mistakes, first cheating, and two letting him find out on his own. So you might as well just move on, he's not coming back.
oh chickey, you made a huge mistake. and that's not easily forgiven. unless he has a big forgiving heart, you may have to accept that you've lost him.





give him time, write a letter, saying why you did what you did, why it was wrong, and why you regret it.





and pray.
you need to move on he will never be able to fully trust you, you should have thought of this before you screwed up your relationship. stay with the person who you slept with.
give him time girl. If youre meant to be youll fall back to eachother. take the time to reflect on your mistake, if you love eachother, then with time youll be back.





d i deserve your generous points for being the nicest:)
if you loved him so much then y did u cheat, but anyways talk to him maybe he'll give u another chance but if it was a friend of his then forget about it u screwed up
he can't be all that great, if u had to go and cheat on him!
If you love him with all your 'hearts' why did you cheat on him?





ROFL...
well dont cheat on him for one and just tell him what happened and talk to hima bout it. tell him that u rele love him and that u made the biggest mistake
You don't get him back.





You got exactly what you deserve!





You were not thinking about how much you love him when you were cheating on him, so now get over it.





ugh
obviously you dont love him if you cheated on him...and he probably know better than to get back with you because once a cheater always a cheater...it would take alota work just for him to build up your trust again...and that would take a long time....if you honestly ';love'; him, why did you cheat on him to begin with.....and what are you willing to risk to win him back...?
its ur fault if u like with ur hrt y did u cheated him......its hard to get him,but u shld b really sorry 4 wat u did...u hav broken ur trust unto him.....so tell him wats ur feeling...and y did u do so
Now come on.....if you really love someone you don't do things that will hurt that person. Your gonna have to work really hard to gain his trust which will probably take a while since you cheated. He is going to need some time to think about the situation, and determine what he wants to do. At this point theres nothing that you can do but apologize
If you need him that much you shouldn't have disrespected him like that. Good luck to him for getting rid of you.





I would have done the same.
Let me bring you up to date on an old true saying











Cheaters never win
you got what u deserve, you never should have cheated. s**t happens. you should have used your head. He would be STUPID, i mean...STUPID, if he takes you back. You should reap what you sow...





especially after your last question stated all he wanted for valentine's day was you.. you have no idea what you had.......you really screwed this one up.