How do i break up with my boyfriend?

Okay,, i wanna break up with my boyfriend but i don't know what to say without hurting him because he likes me a lot. But i wanna break up with him because i need to find myself again, and a month ago my boyfriend of four months dumped me and i still am in love with him. It just feels wrong dating someone when im in love with someone else%26amp;%26amp; i need to find myself again. What should i say to him without hurting him and what should i say to make him understand. PLEASE HELP!How do i break up with my boyfriend?
tell him exactly that first part. that u need to find urself... that u need a break, and think that it would be better if u two were just friends and stopped dating. make sure u clearly state it isnt his fault so he doesnt blame himselfHow do i break up with my boyfriend?
tell him exactly what you said here.
Tell him what you just said on here word from word. He will understand eventually. But he might get a little upset and feel like he is just the rebound. But everyone deserves the truth right??
You could say how you're not really ready for a relationship yet because of your last relationship and you're still trying to recover from that. Tell him it's not his fault or anything, it's just you need some time.