Friday, August 20, 2010

How to break up with my boyfriend during the holidays?

I was told it'd be best to have a talk with him and he and I are going to sit down and chat in a few days to discuss things. But I am not liking the way things are going.





Would it be best to break it off before/after Christmas or before/after New Year's?How to break up with my boyfriend during the holidays?
Before and get it over with - then (if you don`t feel too upset) you can enjoy your Christmas.





Try to make it as brief and as simple as possible. Messy, long-drawn-out endings are more painful.How to break up with my boyfriend during the holidays?
OK, first of all, don't tell him ';I don't like the way it's going';. I have no idea what that means, and neither will he. Guys are natural problem solvers. If you tell him that you don't like the way things are going then he'll think there is something that he can do fix it and make it better. If you've really decided that you are just not into him any longer then just be honest, it'll be the best. Make it about you, what you want. Just tell him that you don't feel the chemistry with him like you did at one time, and that you want to break up.


Yes, do it BEFORE Christmas so he won't waste money on a gifts for you.
Before, If things are not good do not drag it out, It seems cruel, but really it is not, the cruelest thing is to hold someone in a relationship that is not working and deny them the chance to find one that will.
Sit down %26amp; tell him face to face. Don't BS him by waiting, but don't expect him to take it well at this time of year either. He deserves to be happy too, remember that.
Before Christmas, I think. It'd save him unnecessary turmoil, especially if you're going to spend time together during the holidays.
sooner...trust me...sooner
before christmas, omg. the new years is supposed to be the best time of the year for everyone!
Do It now.
sooner then later.


just get it over with, and stop leading him on.

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