I've decided it's best for me to break up with my boyfriend. How do I move on with my life without him?

He's cheated and lied in the past and we now have a terrible relationship due to the lack of trust. Instead of torturing ourselves, I need to break up with him and move on. I know this is what's best for me but every time I go through with it, I miss him right away and always go back. How do I break up with him for good and realize even after its over that its for the best?I've decided it's best for me to break up with my boyfriend. How do I move on with my life without him?
You make a clean break. Wish him well, but tell him that you cannot talk to him. Don't take his calls or answer his texts. Throw away any reminder of him that you have. Delete his number from your phone. It's hard to get over someone that you care about. I know all too well, but it can be done. Best of luck.I've decided it's best for me to break up with my boyfriend. How do I move on with my life without him?
step one: when you break up with him, mean it...





step two: keep reminding yourself why you broke up with him... (keep notes to yourself, in your bedroom, in your bathroom, dinning area, on your phone, laptop, blackberry, even in your car and office desk)





step three: never be alone and keep your mind off of him... you'll miss him when you're alone and remember the good ol' days that you've been together... never let that happen... every night, have some girl time with your girl friends... every morning, arrange something up to make you busy... go shopping, clean up the attic, have a new hair style, do your manicures, etc...





step four: if you do step 1-3 daily, you might get the feeling that you're ready for a new start... meet new people, go have dates, and have fun... and remember to choose the right person that will never hurt you...





NOTE THIS: DON'T LET A LITTLE BAD THING STOP YOU FROM LIVING...
Spend time with friends and family, start a new project, find a new hobby, do some volunteer work, dive into your job or school, change you phone number or block him, block him online, just stay busy. It will take time to get used to being without him, but once you do that, you will feel a load off your shoulders and start having fun again.





Just be careful not to jump into another relationship right away. Take your time and make sure it is right next time. Date for awhile and get to know him very well before you let yourself or him fall in love. Watch for red flags and investigate when you see one. Don't just ignore them or they will catch fire sooner or later.
This is a time when your friends become everything to you. Get their help. Tell them everytime your thinking of texting/ringing him and ask them at the beggining to stop you, enchouraging words. They'll all tell you (it's obviously true) that you can do so much better than that. I delete his number and texts from my phone - i still have it in my phonebook, but still it helps with impulses. Make a list of all the things you've wanted to do that are difficult in a relationship, volunteer, study harder, make more money etc and keep that in mind. There's nothing really we can say, you need to be strong and just do it.
Erase his number out of your cell, remove and burn pictures of him, go to school and hang with your friends and read a self help book dealing how to move on. Also go to church and find your faith in God. Remember, he was unfaithful, think about how dirty he did you and allow yourself not to make that mistake again with the next guy.
you need to just keep in mind the reasons that you broke up with him.. also keep yourself busy and around your friends that is always the best way to get over someone.. dont think that finding a new boyfriend is gonna help right away because it wont. surround yourself with your friends and family and it will be easier than you think to move on.
hi! u said above (in the past) if that be for u star u own relationship u have the right to get mad but u can forgive him. beside u love him.If i understand it wrong and he cheated during the relationship i hate to say this u have to brake up with him because i hate to say for 2 to brake up .any way so that u be over him delete him from u memory and his number/pictures/presents/any thing have to do with him hung out with ur friends more stay away from the places u go to.and try this (http://www.2knowmyself.com/How_to_get_ov鈥?/a> hey if he cames to u and say sorry really really sorry think about it that up to u .GOOD LUCK
I say if someone cheats once but they feel really bad about it, then its okay to give them a second chance, if its more then that though you have to let them go, i know its hard to let people go, but its what must be done, you have to either find someone to replace them or find some activities that will keep your mind off of them...





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Yes, it's the best for you to move on and not to compromise any thing with him. A person who cheated and lied you when he was your bf can not be relied upon. He might repeat it in future also.
i think all guys who cheat are worthless...say that directly and just find someone new that ur sure ur going to love and love you back that's the best way to move on
Hire an assassin.
Be strong... I know its hard to leave someone you love (I'll assume that you love him) .... Remember why you left him in the first place and that there are other guys out there who will treat correctly. You dont have to go through all the drama and disrespect... trust there is someone who will treat you like a queen... That being said let the knowledge that there will greater ones to come encourage you .... take it day by day and sometimes that is a lil much so take it moment to moment... You'll get through it.... To break up with him - tell him exactly how you feel and why DON'T let him interrupt you... DONT listen to excuses or anything say what you have to say and keep moving..... when you have peace and less stress you'll understand and know it's for the best !





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