How can I help my daughter deal with break up? Boyfriend passive aggressive.?

About the time my daughter really started liking this creep, he confesses that he's passive aggressive. Well, he told her that he was grounded till summer, which meant that he's no longer taking her to the military ball-that she has already been preparing for-dress,etc. He already told her they had a future together-marriage etc. Then with his-inability to spit it out, she asked if he wanted to break up, well, he couldn't even ask-He said he didn't want to make that decision-and they went back and forth. Then he said, yes, they should break up, but he didn't want too. It just seems he was trying to let her down easy.





He's such a jack a$$ why couldn't he just come out and break up. He's gorgeous, but he's not God's gift to women. He implied in that past that she would stalk him if they broke up. Well she's not, she's too much of a mature teen to do that. And it's not like he is the only guy in the world!





I know time will heal, I think she's better off without him.. Comments/advice???How can I help my daughter deal with break up? Boyfriend passive aggressive.?
if she's a mature teen like you state im gonna say that she will more than likely drop ahole and move on. he's immature and she doesnt need to be all serious in a relationship thats hot and heavy as a teen. she should focus on getting an education and have fun while doing so. teenagers today are facing so many challenges in their lives, and wow nothing of the sort happened when i was a teenager. im 33 now so that was long ago lol, but i was very mature just like your daughter and i made smart decisions and i turned out just fine. so support her and encourage her to focus on her studies leave that ahole alone and let him find another girl to put up with his immaturity. good luck to you and your daughter!How can I help my daughter deal with break up? Boyfriend passive aggressive.?
Sounds like shes better off without him to be honest, he obviously isn't man enough to tell her what his feelings are or when he wants a break. All you can do for your daughter is be her shoulder and give her lots of cuddles and support what ever decisions she makes, time will heal but make sure she doesn't rush into another relationship until shes ready.
let her deal with it in her own way. moms trying to help usually do the opposite. right now she isn't going to want to talk to anyone about it... its too painful. if she wants you to talk or listen, she will come to you. just be ready.
You sound way to invested in this. All you do is teach your daughter how to make wise choices and how to walk away when she has made a bad choice, problem solved.
a woman calling a man passive aggressive is like a nazi calling a person antisemetic.
i think you should talk to her, and tell her that there's LOADS of guys out there... GOOD guys. just convince her that he is no good for her. he's obviously trying to let her down gently, but that just means that he is a jerk, telling her that they should break up but he doesn't want to. that's so MISLEADING! i don't understand why she doesn't see that either.





just talk to her, help her move on. tell her that there are lots of other guys out there and that she shouldn't chase this one stupid kid.





I hope this helps you :)