How do I break up with my boyfriend I had for a year?

My reasoning is that I don't feel as happy as I did earlier in the relationship and we're not the same people anymore. We go to 2 different schools and hardly ever see each other. We've been together for a year. How do I break up with him? ://How do I break up with my boyfriend I had for a year?
Breaking up is rarely easy. You both had feelings for each other at one point, and maybe you still do. The key is to do it maturely, without deliberate pain, so that you can both move on with your lives and find someone better suited for you. A relationship really needs two fully committed people, so if one of you doesn't want to be in the relationship any more, it's best for BOTH of you to end it. That's the key message to get across.





Don't get into lots of blame-finding. There is always fault on both sides in a relationship that fails. Make sure you sit down face to face somewhere quiet. Never break up over the phone or via email, that's completely unfair. A relationship is based on trust and dependability - don't prove you're unworthy of that in the final hour. Sit down and explain it's not going to work. If your partner has questions, answer them as fairly as you can, but without going into lots of back-stabbing. Breaking up isn't about finding fault. It's about you both being able to find ';closure'; to this relationship so you are able to then move on to a new one.





It's really in both of your best interests to end this cleanly. If you don't, it will come back to haunt you in many ways. If you can both accept that this was simply not meant to be, and that somewhere out there a new person awaits which IS perfect for each of you, you might even be able to stay friends. Or if not, you can look back on your time together as an enjoyable experiment which just didn't work out the way you'd originally hoped.





I worked really hard on this manHow do I break up with my boyfriend I had for a year?
tell him exactly what you told us about how you're not as happy as you were in the beginning and how you hate not being able to see each other a lot and how you are both changing. tell him you're not doing this to hurt him and you did have feelings for him, but they are gone now and nothing can bring them back. if you would like to still be his friend give him that option, but don't force him to be your friend. most likely he will be hurt, but you are hurting too and you need to be happy.
He may be feeling the same way about you but don't know how to tell you either.Start off by saying '; do you think that it is a good idea for us to go our seperate ways, we seem to have grown apart and hardly see each other. I feel that our relationship is only holding us both back but I hope that we can always be friends.'; Umm don't be surprised if you hear a sign of releif coming from him too.
well first,


not over the phone


or


in a text message


or


online


just


In person..


it hurts a lot more when its in lettering, not words..


Do you still care about him? If so, tell him that you still care about him,but that you arent the same people


whatever you do,


don't lie about your feelings, okay?


I say you should just say exactly what you said to us!


why not?
Say: ''I don't feel as happy as I did earlier in the relationship and we're not the same people anymore''





Easy :)♥
well if you both act different the feeling might be mutual and you might just casually drift apart
Talk to him about it, maybe he feels the same way.


Just do it, Your not happy.
Maybe explain to him what you just told us...





It's the truth, and how you feel.
just say that...person is always better though
hook up with someone else, then tell him. he'll break up with you.