Would you break up with your boyfriend if he frequents strip club ?

Last week my boyfriend went out for a beer with his friends after work. When I asked him about it I was shocked to found out they went to a strip bar. I didn't want to talk to him for the whole weekend. I was going to break up with him, but he said he won't go there again. How can I trust him when he still hang with those same friends ?Would you break up with your boyfriend if he frequents strip club ?
I would feel hurt, too. You're going to get a lot of answers on here saying boys will be boys, relax, etc. but it's not necessarily true. Very few of my past boyfriends saw the need to visit strip clubs.





He went once (that you know of) and told you the truth where he was. He could have told you he was at a sports bar, etc. Chances are he just went along with his friends. If he told you he won't go again, then take him at his word and see what happens.Would you break up with your boyfriend if he frequents strip club ?
First off frequents represents the notion he goes there regularly. He said he would not go so take it that.





Make it known though that you would rather him tell you before he went to the strip bar again if it shall ever arise , a situation like before.





It is better to let them know they can be open and honest with you without getting beat. meanign yes you can be mad at him and express your feelings but do not do anything too rash
Maybe he didn't know that it meant that much to you, talk to him and tell him where you stand when it comes to stuff like that.





He was probably peer pressured my husband did that on his bucks night he felt pressured but i was so upset it ruined my wedding day.





Just let him know and if you find out he has gone to the club again then toss him out.
i wouldnt go out with someone whowould oppose going to a trip club with mates for a laugh as long as he not spending all the money!





hell! no one makes a fuss when girls go to all guy strip shows but any guy who goes to a strip show is seen as masoganistic but anyway in london no one cares as long as your responsible your just to uptight although your descriptions breif so the situation could be worse but if its only a few times tell him to do it less frequently and if hes not spending time with u tell him that aswell but he has a right to go to a strip club as do u if u want.
I feel you there. I'm very self-conscious when it comes to nekkid-ness so I understand why you would be uncomfortable with him going to a strip club.





Are his friends married or attached? Talk to their significant others. Teehee.





And... if your boyfriend cares about you enough, that should be all he needs NOT to go... it makes you upset.
Yes and I did end a serious relationship over it - the guy had a porn/bondage fetish that wasn't going to end. The problem is if you marry him, chances are he will continue to go. If you can tolerate that, then you're fine. If not, you've been given the red flag warning.





My husband doesn't frequent those places - and doesn't want to. He doesn't even like going to bars so I got lucky.
Just being your boyfriend does not take his license of enjoying his freedom.. threatening to break up will force him to lie to you often. that's how guys are.. you've gotta give him his freedom.. he would respect you for that and the trust you show in him. Better to trust him than to loose the guy you love !!!
If he went alone, then I would question it, but he went out with friends, and guys can be guys... Give him one more chance, if he said no, but goes again, then you might want to consider breaking up, but I think its fine this time.
easy sparky.. the strip clubs for men are NO TOUCH, unlike the strip clubs for women where they can swaggle a mans junk under a towel coverd in whipped cream.
I wouldn't want to be with a guy who goes to strip clubs.


When you're with a guy you deserve to be the only woman.


Well thats how I feel anyway.
I would. If he is with you, he should be looking at YOU! If you do not trust him, then why are you with him anyways?
You need to grow up.
Your question is a hard one! Some women are not bothered by their men going to strip clubs as they feel that its ok to look at the menu as long as you don't order the dish!


Whereas others feel so strongly about it that they feel their bloke has cheated on them by going and looking at other women.


Men are very visual creatures and enjoy staring at beautiful half- naked women but it doesn't mean that he will want to sleep with them. He has you!


I wouldn't want my partner to go to them as I hate how women are sexualised all the time and I feel men who go to strip clubs are looking at the women as a piece of meat.


If he's told you he won't go there agin and you have explained properly how upset you are by him going then I'd give him a chance. He won't want to hurt your feelings again.


He told you truthfully he had been so he obviously thought you wouldn't have a problem with it but now he knows you do I don't think he'd run the risk of upsetting you again.