How do I make my boyfriend break up with me?

I want to break up with my boyfriend, but I have to see him every tuesday and sunday for after school club (which is held at his house and sponsored by his dad.) I broke up with him once but we got back together after my prompting. If I break up with him, he'll be heart broken and that'll make the meetings extreeemly awkward. So how do I make him break up with me?How do I make my boyfriend break up with me?
You got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it.





How pathetic that you'd go so far as to play stupid manipulative games on someone that you actually cared for at one time in a bid to save you from feeling awkward....its spiteful cruel and mean of you !





Ok he'll be a bit cut up, so what, just think how he'd feel if he knew how horrible you'd been doing that to him.....





Do the right and only thing !





These are real words of advice for now and the future and will always hold you in good stead.





You can thank me later.How do I make my boyfriend break up with me?
If you are that concerned about him, then why not stop going to that after school club; otherwise you have to do what you have to do, and break up with him. Maybe bring a hot friend over with you to the meetings- a girl who he'll like so she can date him, and he'll break up with you...or investigate if there's a similar club you can transfer to, than after you start your meetings over there, break up with him
I would be honest with him. I would not try to do anything to ';make'; him break up with you because that would make things even more awkward than they should be at the meetings. Tell him exactly why you do not think the relationship is working and then reassure him you want to be friends. Once you do this, you should not change your mind again and decide you want to be back together. That would be playing games with him and will make him even more confused. I recommend just being perfectly honest with him. That is the classy and respectful thing to do!
Oh my God!


Just break up with him. Just don't do it rough.


Go down to him, when you're only with him, and just tell hum calm why you think you shouldn't be together anymore.


Don't accuse him of anything, just tell everything from your point of view, and ask him how he feels about it.


Be nice and he'll understand it.


Of course, first he would be heart broken, but later he'll understand.


If you're going to be all bitchy and I don't know what and eventually he'll break up, he'll probably feel worse hell of a lot time longer then when you just tell him the facts.





Good luck!
To be honest I think he will be more upset if he works out your trying to get him to break up with you than if you broke up with him. Just sit down and tell him you think you should just be friends. He probably will be upset at first but at least he wont be angry like he would if he found out you were trying to get him to break up with you. Say you don't want things to be awkward between you guys because you still want to be good friends with him.


Good luck.
Hi Sierra, stop being a selfish *****. If you don't want to be with him, say so, because you can't make somebody do something they don't want to.


At least by you breaking it off, it will be clean and quick. Stop stringing the guy along, at least he deserves that.


And as for you, well what you are planning to try and do, make him look the bad guy, well you deserve a kick in the gonads, except you ain't got any.


Mike t.
Just tell him you want to break up. Don't pretend be a horrible girlfriend in hopes that you'll force him to break up with you.





If you don't want to be with him, you have to be honest.





If you are going to break up, then you will also need to quit the after school club.





You can't have your cake and eat it to.
Get real and just tell him the truth. Don't play games and deceive him, cuz one day that same game will be played with you and you'll get a taste of what it felt like for him.





Just tell him the truth so both of you can move forward.
The only way to make him dump you is to be really horrible to him - and that'll break his heart too! Stop trying to make the situation better for yourself; just put the poor boy out of his misery and split up with him.
Don't portray yourself as a different person for someone to break up with you, if you really don't want to date him, be real and just do it.
You could stop worrying about other people and just do what needs to be done. Stop pussyfooting around it and do what you have to. No need to prolong it.
well what i would do is just tell him that you want to break up (but in a nice way) and say that we could still be good friends and stuff
cheat with his best friend or you can just break up with him, wouldn't it just be easier?
Just get it over with and break up with him. He'll EVENTUALLY get over it.
kiss his best friend


tell him your really a man (jokes) :)


make his parents and friends hate you


start silly arguments over nothing


find his pet hate and do it in front of him
just ignore him.





he'll get it.


i've been through this :)


just ignore him, give him pointless responses.





it'll work.
Why don't you be a REAL WOMAN and break up with him if you aren't happy in the relationship.
Do the kindest thing and tell the poor boy!
act like your not interested anymore
Tease and confuse him.
just say you need some time apart for personal reasons
make out with his dad in front of him