How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend ?

I know that sounds bad, but i really think it is the right decision. They are both my best friends, and lets say his name is james. James told me he wanted to break up with her because he didn't feel connected and that she was annoying. So i told her this and she didn't believe me and accused me of trying to ruin her relationship. Then he told her he wanted too and so she told him she was falling in love with him and then planned a weekend together. During that weekend they made out and he took her shirt and bra off. After he just wanted to dump her. Now she is saying she is going to give him a ********, and i honestly think she only wants to so he wont dump her because she knows he wants too. What should i do ?How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend ?
Tell her that he is using her and that its not a healthy relationship, if she ignores your advice then let it go.Sometimes people have to make mistakes so they dont make the same one again.It might teach her a lesson to listen and not sell herself short.What a friend ha?He was about to dump her and then changed his mind for a quick ';head job';. Thats gross, you did what you can and she didnt listen perhaps next time she will.Self respect is important if you lack it you give people permission to use and abuse you.You give them a ticket to treat you how ever they please.If she told him to bugger off and moved on she wont have a memory of doing this to a guy who does not deserve her time.you did your job as a good friend now its up to her, dont get too involved as they might both turn against you when you were merely trying to help....How do i get my friend to break up with her boyfriend ?
Sit back and let them do this on their own. Don't get in their business. Sometimes it helps to not get in the mix with other people's problems because it will just make it worst.
just let it go and c what happens...... down the line
Tell her to ';JUMP IN'; The water is lovely





Good luck with it