I'm fourteen and i've been going out with this guy for a month. He is really sweet but we go to different schools so i see him maybe once a week if I'm lucky. Recently made out with this guy I've been in love with for two years but he also has a girlfriend of 11 months. I told my boyfriend and he forgave me but I can't seem to be able to forget about it and I don't really like my boyfriend anymore. How do I let him down?How to break up with your boyfriend?
Invest in your love and to be happy.
Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.How to break up with your boyfriend?
You're 14. You shouldn't be making out, especially with someone who has a girlfriend. As for your question, just tell him that you're sorry but your feelings have changed, and you just want to be friends.
Tell him that your 14, dating for a month, and dont go to the same school....its not a big deal.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to break up with obsessive boyfriend?
I have come to the point that I have lost intrest in him. He is really annoying and always wants to have sex and attention. He is kind of suicidal in a way. I have broken up with him before for 3 months but he was ridiculous. He kept calling me and texting me so I had to change my number. Even my Email adress and everything. He always says I'm the only one he loves. But it's so annoying! How can I lay him off easily?How to break up with obsessive boyfriend?
it sounds like easy is not the way to go with this guy, cut the strings harshly so he gets the message loud and clear
it sounds like easy is not the way to go with this guy, cut the strings harshly so he gets the message loud and clear
What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend?
I've been meaning to do it for a long time. I was actually planning on doing it yesterday, but my friend went up to me and told me that I was all he talked about yesterday.. I feel really bad, but I just don't want to string him along any longer. So how to I cut him off in a nice way?What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend?
There's really never a right or wrong way to end a relationship. But honesty can go a long way toward making the breakup as painless as possible. Don't get into any long, drawn out discussions about your reasons, just let it be known that you have made up your mind and that you wish him all the best in life. It won't be easy at first for him to accept, but over time the hurt will ease and he will be able to move on. I wish you the best. Peacemens hair red hair
There's really never a right or wrong way to end a relationship. But honesty can go a long way toward making the breakup as painless as possible. Don't get into any long, drawn out discussions about your reasons, just let it be known that you have made up your mind and that you wish him all the best in life. It won't be easy at first for him to accept, but over time the hurt will ease and he will be able to move on. I wish you the best. Peace
I broke up with my boyfriend and now I really miss him. How can I stay strong?
I broke up with him because he was acting like a complete jerk. He's a sweetheart but I wanted to teach him a lesson. This happened yesterday and I figured he would call by now, but he hasn't. I really really miss him, but I will rather be without him than deal with a complete a**hole. How can I stay strong n not get a hold of him?I broke up with my boyfriend and now I really miss him. How can I stay strong?
The purpose of dating is to get to know people and how to behave in a relationship.
He is failing by acting like a jerk.
You are also failing by not addressing the problem, and acting like a jerk yourself in the process. Sound like you two are a match.
If you tell him he is acting like a jerk and that you don't want to be around him when he is like that then, he has a choice to make. Act like a jerk and not be with you or not act like one and be with you.
By braking up, you have effectively cut off all communication and haven't learned how to deal with this behavior. His acting like a jerk is temporary (hopefully) your acting like a jerk (by breaking up over it) is definite. On top of that, you are now mixing in pride. You don't want to call him cause it would be an admission that you made a mistake (which you did).
You tell me who sounds like they need more help?
Do the right thing. Call him and tell him how he makes you feel when he acts like a jerk.
The purpose of dating is to get to know people and how to behave in a relationship.
He is failing by acting like a jerk.
You are also failing by not addressing the problem, and acting like a jerk yourself in the process. Sound like you two are a match.
If you tell him he is acting like a jerk and that you don't want to be around him when he is like that then, he has a choice to make. Act like a jerk and not be with you or not act like one and be with you.
By braking up, you have effectively cut off all communication and haven't learned how to deal with this behavior. His acting like a jerk is temporary (hopefully) your acting like a jerk (by breaking up over it) is definite. On top of that, you are now mixing in pride. You don't want to call him cause it would be an admission that you made a mistake (which you did).
You tell me who sounds like they need more help?
Do the right thing. Call him and tell him how he makes you feel when he acts like a jerk.
How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
Everytime we talk about something he is always like if you dont start speaking up im hanging up and we are done or if you go hang out with your friend zac we are done. Its like he is threatening me and I dont know what to do. I mean like I want to but everytime its always like he is hurting himself when im talking to him by punching the door and cutting himself....and it changes my mind. What do I do?How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
You need to worry about yourself. Your boyfriend is mentally unstable. He is the one hurting you, and he's guilt tripping you everytime you try to leave him. Nobody has any right to tell you that you can't hang out with your friends. If he claims that if you hang out with Zac then it's over, go ahead and do it. He's making you miserable. If he wants to punch a door and cut himself, he can go ahead and do it, that doesn't mean he has to drag you down with him! It is not your fault he does this. He needs to get some professional help, and I'm not trying to sound like a smart *** or anything, I'm being serious. Good luck.How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
First thought, toxic relationship. Ask yourself, are you putting more into the relationship than your b/f? Life is about balance. Suggest he needs to get help if you truly believe he is self-destructive, and that until he does, you and he are not to be. Never compromise your values and how you like to be treated for anyone or anything. Be strong, and stronger... He might realize he needs to grow a little or straighten out some stuff before he can be with someone. Again, don't compromise what you want out of life for anything or anyone. I'm sure there are a hundred-plus that would rejoice the opportunity to know you better than just as friends. Take care, and don't think of leaving him as hurting him, rather helping him become a better person. Just don't do it in a cheap way, such as an e-mail, or phone call, rather in person. It shows great care and respect when you talk like humans face to face. Good Luck!
to brake it too him softly but not leaving anything to his imagine, say you don't want to stay in a relationship with him, that he is just not the right person for you. tell him he has great potentional but he has to stop being so dramatic, tell him one relationship is nothing compared to life. say that you will both move on and have the rest of your life to meet people, so that he might as well save himself pain and accept the fact. trying to put it in perspective will really help. also tell him that if he is going to try and make you feel guilty its not going to work, in that he has bigger problems he needs to deal with before a relationship anyways. then I would suggest anonymously telling a parent or counselor if you go to the same school that he is cutting, this is extremely crucial, even though he is probably doing it for attention if you don't tell someone and he kills himself it will be on your shoulders for the rest of your life, a little relationship that would have meant nothing could haunt you forever, it will be in a way closure to let his family know so that its not in your hands at all anymore. that way they can help him and you can have a free-er conscious. either way you have to live for yourself, and in a way you are doing him a favor too anyways.
Tell him how you feel, holding all these feelings in is never a good thing you might even end up hating him if you keep holding it in. Just be nice about it don't scream at him or go off on him just sit with him normal and talk about it tell him what bothers you why and how you feel and if you don't want to tell him in person give him a letter or by the phone but person to persons better. Hope this helps
Okay, you need to leave this relationship as swiftly as you can. It seems like he's blackmailing you, and being emotionally abusive. Also it's like he's jealous. You don't need someone like that in your life. Just tell him, ';Look, I think we need some time alone to think of where this relationship is going.'; If he throws a fit, then you need to leave. Just leave.
hey,y do u think break up.he is perfect,if u love more than the world,u must behave like him.so try o understand his situation then think abt him,break up is a simple matter,bt later u must feel abt that.so think urself.it is better,dont take decision while u tens.o best of luck,ry to love him,if u love truely,though he does mistake,u will take it easy.so understand,dont be hurry.
I think you should tell his mum or a close family member that can help him. Get him to see a psychiatrist or someone that can get him straight in the head. After he looks less suicidal, break up with him. People like him can drag you down with them and your life ends up getting wasted.
:)
You won't be able to.
Might as well marry him and have his kids against your will.
Take him up on his offer. Talk to Zac, he's just looking for attention and misery loves company. If you felt bad for everyone for something you'd get nowhere in life, especially with this looney loser.
Thats because he is trying to grip that handle of control on you so you wont leave him,
be warned after control comes abuse.
you need to leave, life is too short to spend it with someone you dont love and arent happy with, if you dont love him anymore, then what exactly are you waiting for?, your only hurting him more.
GL !
if hes hurting himself, its just a way to make you feel guilty %26amp; stay with him. its a bad idea to be in a relationship with someone who acts the way you described. just end it to make things easier on you.
Just be honest and tell it to him like it is. He is an idiot and you respect yourself enough to know that you are worth more and deserve better than him!
u both try 2 have a conversation on this matter, find out where the problem is, u both must try 2 understand eachother, and when its ur turn 2 speak out the things just dont b harsh at ur language try 2 b calm nd polite
Andrey is right.
He isn't the one for you.
You don't deserve to be held down, it's clearly not progressing so what's the point.
Good luck :)
He sounds like a possessive weirdo. I'd dump him if I were in your shoes. Don't worry about hurting him. If we all worried about hurting every ones feelings we would never get anything done.
this kid cuts himself and threatens you, what the hell are your with him for, get out NOWWWW!!!!
Turn up with your new boyfriend, that should tip him right over the edge.
Jesus H Christ, just tell him he is a loser and is blackmailing you.
2 simple lines.....This are`nt working out....I can`t see you anymore....Say that and let the chips fall where they may....
well when he says if you do this we are through just say kep we are though bye and hang up is really simple like everyone else
ITS NOT GOOD
so dump is sorry butt and find someone better :)
Just dump him, he is not right for you. Just tell him in person that you two are through. That's it. Good luck!
then just hang out with zac till he dumps u..so then he wont be hurt..coz he dumped. :S
you go on with this abusive relationship:You will have no one to blame but yourself
my ex was the same way... just sing or send him this... it may not be true but itll make him feel better and at some point god might give him some one who is better for him then you and can handle him better but the whole black mailing you thing is lame ... break ups hurt but youll both get over it
Just Fine';
Heeyy, uh, ummmm, heey, oh girl, oh girl
We did everything we could do
To try to make it work (we did, we did)
Baby, you look so confused, cause it feels like, there was no way we could lose (no way, no way)
Baby, I just don't know why I can't find the things you need in me (I can't, I can't girl)
Baby, they know just know what to say, they trying to break us away from one another, but maybe their right for a change
I think, God will give you someone,
Much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K. it will be alright.
You'll be just fine (just fine, just fine)
I know that baby we would disagree constantly on the basic things (we did, we did)
You thought that there was someone else, all along (no way, no way)
Baby I want to decide to stay right by your side
Baby, they know just what to say.
They wanna keep us away from one another
But Maybe they're right for a change
I think, God will give you someone,
Much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K. (O.K.), alright (alright), just fine (just fine)
I know, baby, baby, baby can't you see that another fella just may be the kinda man that you need
You deserve it and I know that
I know another love has come your way, just listen to me when I say
You'll find him (you'll find him) be patient
I think, God will give you someone,
So much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K., it will alright, it will be just fine (just fine)
(Cause I know that baby)
I think, God will give you someone (someone better),
Better than me, trust me girl
(no more pain) O.K.,
(no more pain) Alright,
It will be just fine (just fine)
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey
(You wanna know why I'm sure)
(sure, sure)
You need to worry about yourself. Your boyfriend is mentally unstable. He is the one hurting you, and he's guilt tripping you everytime you try to leave him. Nobody has any right to tell you that you can't hang out with your friends. If he claims that if you hang out with Zac then it's over, go ahead and do it. He's making you miserable. If he wants to punch a door and cut himself, he can go ahead and do it, that doesn't mean he has to drag you down with him! It is not your fault he does this. He needs to get some professional help, and I'm not trying to sound like a smart *** or anything, I'm being serious. Good luck.How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
First thought, toxic relationship. Ask yourself, are you putting more into the relationship than your b/f? Life is about balance. Suggest he needs to get help if you truly believe he is self-destructive, and that until he does, you and he are not to be. Never compromise your values and how you like to be treated for anyone or anything. Be strong, and stronger... He might realize he needs to grow a little or straighten out some stuff before he can be with someone. Again, don't compromise what you want out of life for anything or anyone. I'm sure there are a hundred-plus that would rejoice the opportunity to know you better than just as friends. Take care, and don't think of leaving him as hurting him, rather helping him become a better person. Just don't do it in a cheap way, such as an e-mail, or phone call, rather in person. It shows great care and respect when you talk like humans face to face. Good Luck!
to brake it too him softly but not leaving anything to his imagine, say you don't want to stay in a relationship with him, that he is just not the right person for you. tell him he has great potentional but he has to stop being so dramatic, tell him one relationship is nothing compared to life. say that you will both move on and have the rest of your life to meet people, so that he might as well save himself pain and accept the fact. trying to put it in perspective will really help. also tell him that if he is going to try and make you feel guilty its not going to work, in that he has bigger problems he needs to deal with before a relationship anyways. then I would suggest anonymously telling a parent or counselor if you go to the same school that he is cutting, this is extremely crucial, even though he is probably doing it for attention if you don't tell someone and he kills himself it will be on your shoulders for the rest of your life, a little relationship that would have meant nothing could haunt you forever, it will be in a way closure to let his family know so that its not in your hands at all anymore. that way they can help him and you can have a free-er conscious. either way you have to live for yourself, and in a way you are doing him a favor too anyways.
Tell him how you feel, holding all these feelings in is never a good thing you might even end up hating him if you keep holding it in. Just be nice about it don't scream at him or go off on him just sit with him normal and talk about it tell him what bothers you why and how you feel and if you don't want to tell him in person give him a letter or by the phone but person to persons better. Hope this helps
Okay, you need to leave this relationship as swiftly as you can. It seems like he's blackmailing you, and being emotionally abusive. Also it's like he's jealous. You don't need someone like that in your life. Just tell him, ';Look, I think we need some time alone to think of where this relationship is going.'; If he throws a fit, then you need to leave. Just leave.
hey,y do u think break up.he is perfect,if u love more than the world,u must behave like him.so try o understand his situation then think abt him,break up is a simple matter,bt later u must feel abt that.so think urself.it is better,dont take decision while u tens.o best of luck,ry to love him,if u love truely,though he does mistake,u will take it easy.so understand,dont be hurry.
I think you should tell his mum or a close family member that can help him. Get him to see a psychiatrist or someone that can get him straight in the head. After he looks less suicidal, break up with him. People like him can drag you down with them and your life ends up getting wasted.
:)
You won't be able to.
Might as well marry him and have his kids against your will.
Take him up on his offer. Talk to Zac, he's just looking for attention and misery loves company. If you felt bad for everyone for something you'd get nowhere in life, especially with this looney loser.
Thats because he is trying to grip that handle of control on you so you wont leave him,
be warned after control comes abuse.
you need to leave, life is too short to spend it with someone you dont love and arent happy with, if you dont love him anymore, then what exactly are you waiting for?, your only hurting him more.
GL !
if hes hurting himself, its just a way to make you feel guilty %26amp; stay with him. its a bad idea to be in a relationship with someone who acts the way you described. just end it to make things easier on you.
Just be honest and tell it to him like it is. He is an idiot and you respect yourself enough to know that you are worth more and deserve better than him!
u both try 2 have a conversation on this matter, find out where the problem is, u both must try 2 understand eachother, and when its ur turn 2 speak out the things just dont b harsh at ur language try 2 b calm nd polite
Andrey is right.
He isn't the one for you.
You don't deserve to be held down, it's clearly not progressing so what's the point.
Good luck :)
He sounds like a possessive weirdo. I'd dump him if I were in your shoes. Don't worry about hurting him. If we all worried about hurting every ones feelings we would never get anything done.
this kid cuts himself and threatens you, what the hell are your with him for, get out NOWWWW!!!!
Turn up with your new boyfriend, that should tip him right over the edge.
Jesus H Christ, just tell him he is a loser and is blackmailing you.
2 simple lines.....This are`nt working out....I can`t see you anymore....Say that and let the chips fall where they may....
well when he says if you do this we are through just say kep we are though bye and hang up is really simple like everyone else
ITS NOT GOOD
so dump is sorry butt and find someone better :)
Just dump him, he is not right for you. Just tell him in person that you two are through. That's it. Good luck!
then just hang out with zac till he dumps u..so then he wont be hurt..coz he dumped. :S
you go on with this abusive relationship:You will have no one to blame but yourself
my ex was the same way... just sing or send him this... it may not be true but itll make him feel better and at some point god might give him some one who is better for him then you and can handle him better but the whole black mailing you thing is lame ... break ups hurt but youll both get over it
Just Fine';
Heeyy, uh, ummmm, heey, oh girl, oh girl
We did everything we could do
To try to make it work (we did, we did)
Baby, you look so confused, cause it feels like, there was no way we could lose (no way, no way)
Baby, I just don't know why I can't find the things you need in me (I can't, I can't girl)
Baby, they know just know what to say, they trying to break us away from one another, but maybe their right for a change
I think, God will give you someone,
Much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K. it will be alright.
You'll be just fine (just fine, just fine)
I know that baby we would disagree constantly on the basic things (we did, we did)
You thought that there was someone else, all along (no way, no way)
Baby I want to decide to stay right by your side
Baby, they know just what to say.
They wanna keep us away from one another
But Maybe they're right for a change
I think, God will give you someone,
Much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K. (O.K.), alright (alright), just fine (just fine)
I know, baby, baby, baby can't you see that another fella just may be the kinda man that you need
You deserve it and I know that
I know another love has come your way, just listen to me when I say
You'll find him (you'll find him) be patient
I think, God will give you someone,
So much better than me, trust me
Your eyes will be O.K., it will alright, it will be just fine (just fine)
(Cause I know that baby)
I think, God will give you someone (someone better),
Better than me, trust me girl
(no more pain) O.K.,
(no more pain) Alright,
It will be just fine (just fine)
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey
(You wanna know why I'm sure)
(sure, sure)
How should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
He is really important to me becase he was my first kiss and we have had geat tims 2gether but iam starting to like someone else.He likes me alot and i dont want him 2 end up being heart broken.How should i break up with him? plz HelpHow should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
Girl, i have the same problem right now! And i guess you know to, that it is reallly hard. I guess all you can do is tell him that it would be soo much better if yall were just friends soo yall don't get in to any sort of fight or something. Be sure to tell him how you feel so that he knows..It will make him feel better.. Good Luck!How should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
Either way, he's gonna get his heart broken.
And there is nothing you can do about it.
So just tell him how you feel and that hes still important to you but you only see him as a friend now. He'll eventually move on.
Girl, i have the same problem right now! And i guess you know to, that it is reallly hard. I guess all you can do is tell him that it would be soo much better if yall were just friends soo yall don't get in to any sort of fight or something. Be sure to tell him how you feel so that he knows..It will make him feel better.. Good Luck!How should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
Either way, he's gonna get his heart broken.
And there is nothing you can do about it.
So just tell him how you feel and that hes still important to you but you only see him as a friend now. He'll eventually move on.
How should i break up with my boyfriend?
im not sure how to, should i break up with him by a text, if he asked me out on myspace??
im not sure what to do. please help!!How should i break up with my boyfriend?
The best way is to tell him in person, even though it's hard to, but put it in a nice way, tell him that you guys could still be close friends. Even though you break-up with someone, it doesn't mean you guys can't be friends :)How should i break up with my boyfriend?
well i don't kno the situation but it would probably be more productive if you do it in person. it most likely wouldnt give the right impression of you if you did it electronically. be a woman about yourself and handle it confidently. make sure to let him kno why too so hes not confused or anything
Never break up with someone over the phone, text, chat, etc. Even if you don't want to meet that person, and even if that's the easiest way, it's the meanest and rudest way.
Just ask him to meet up somewhere, and break up with him in person. Good luck!
Help me? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
this is what i have learned. never say ';we need to talk'; because when men hear those words they shut down or try to come up with a lie to whatever you are about to ask them. so, instead say hey hun or baby, ';lets go hang out'; get him to a public place, and just discuss the issue at hand. Be calm try not to yell. it works trust me
you should get some crazy neck tattoos and make drunken phone calls to his father telling him that you find him much more attractive than his son... ask to borrow his car and then crash it.... pee in a baking tray and freeze it so you have a frozen sheet of urine and then slide it under his door so it melts on his carpet... that should about do it... maybe eat one of his pets if he has any
If you break up with him via MySpace or text message, you're a horrible person. He deserves the dignity of being told in person. If you want out of the relationship, show some respect and do it the right way!
well either way thats a bad way to start in a relationship over myspace or text...even worse to do it that way. tell him face to face. or if you have to over the phone(even tho thats not a great way either) dont text or email....contact is the way to go
Oh girl, you listen here to ol' Clitora and you listen good. Dump him in person baby, but be honest. If he don't know how to put it down then tell him baby. Ol Clitora can teach him a thing or two..send him my way baby.
well you can do it one of these three ways.
u can be more mature by doing it in person.
you can do it by text
or on the phone
but never ever ever break up with someone over myspace
Myspace is low. Text isn't that great and phone call is not good. Person is the only way it should be done bc you see his immediate rea tion %26amp; make the whole thing easier.
break up with him nicely in person alone, or he will resent you and spread rumors about you forever!
Definitely not over text or the phone... I've learned that the hard way :) Just kinda...talk to him and say you think you two need to take a break, I guess. :) Good luck.
Text. If he asked you out on Myspace I think it would be fair to break up with him by text.
Be the more mature bigger person and do it to his face, just tell him its not working out anymore
To be respected at all as a human being, you should do it to his face. Text-breakup is so despicable.
im not sure what to do. please help!!How should i break up with my boyfriend?
The best way is to tell him in person, even though it's hard to, but put it in a nice way, tell him that you guys could still be close friends. Even though you break-up with someone, it doesn't mean you guys can't be friends :)How should i break up with my boyfriend?
well i don't kno the situation but it would probably be more productive if you do it in person. it most likely wouldnt give the right impression of you if you did it electronically. be a woman about yourself and handle it confidently. make sure to let him kno why too so hes not confused or anything
Never break up with someone over the phone, text, chat, etc. Even if you don't want to meet that person, and even if that's the easiest way, it's the meanest and rudest way.
Just ask him to meet up somewhere, and break up with him in person. Good luck!
Help me? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
this is what i have learned. never say ';we need to talk'; because when men hear those words they shut down or try to come up with a lie to whatever you are about to ask them. so, instead say hey hun or baby, ';lets go hang out'; get him to a public place, and just discuss the issue at hand. Be calm try not to yell. it works trust me
you should get some crazy neck tattoos and make drunken phone calls to his father telling him that you find him much more attractive than his son... ask to borrow his car and then crash it.... pee in a baking tray and freeze it so you have a frozen sheet of urine and then slide it under his door so it melts on his carpet... that should about do it... maybe eat one of his pets if he has any
If you break up with him via MySpace or text message, you're a horrible person. He deserves the dignity of being told in person. If you want out of the relationship, show some respect and do it the right way!
well either way thats a bad way to start in a relationship over myspace or text...even worse to do it that way. tell him face to face. or if you have to over the phone(even tho thats not a great way either) dont text or email....contact is the way to go
Oh girl, you listen here to ol' Clitora and you listen good. Dump him in person baby, but be honest. If he don't know how to put it down then tell him baby. Ol Clitora can teach him a thing or two..send him my way baby.
well you can do it one of these three ways.
u can be more mature by doing it in person.
you can do it by text
or on the phone
but never ever ever break up with someone over myspace
Myspace is low. Text isn't that great and phone call is not good. Person is the only way it should be done bc you see his immediate rea tion %26amp; make the whole thing easier.
break up with him nicely in person alone, or he will resent you and spread rumors about you forever!
Definitely not over text or the phone... I've learned that the hard way :) Just kinda...talk to him and say you think you two need to take a break, I guess. :) Good luck.
Text. If he asked you out on Myspace I think it would be fair to break up with him by text.
Be the more mature bigger person and do it to his face, just tell him its not working out anymore
To be respected at all as a human being, you should do it to his face. Text-breakup is so despicable.
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