I want to break up with my boyfriend, but i don't want to crush him in the process...he is a really nice guy but i think we are better off as friends.
i really need help//and by the way, he lives in my neighborhood, we have the same circle of friends and we go to the same school so it's going to be even harder since we see each other every day...any suggestions?? PLEASE HELP!!!How do i break up with my boyfriend?
Honesty is key, letting down a guy softly never works. Most guys prefer a woman to be honest and not sugar coat it, but since you have to see him every day, you could always ask to just stay friends. Don't stress out about this too much, it's happened to everyone and not a big deal! relationships often happen between people in the same social circle and unless it's a terrible brake up most people stay as friends.
All in all try to be honest, and don't hurt him unless you have to. Some guys are extremely clingy and the only way to get the message across is to make it loud and clear, but I think for you it's best to just be honest and try to be nice :)How do i break up with my boyfriend?
sit him down (not on a date) and tell him that ur not feeling what u felt when u first started dating. and that u need some space. tell him that there is a possibitity that u guys will date again. even if thats not true....tell him that u want to be friends and that ur sorry. also wait about a week before dating anyone else
just what you said - he is a really nice guy but i think we are better off as friends.
just tell him that, its true. say you really like him but you don't think its right to string him along when you like him better as a friend.
You just have to make it soft, quick, and honest. Say, ';You are a great guy, but I want us to be friends';. Or at least something to that effect.
either way he will be crushed, so just tell him face to face and woman up! and let him know u can do it the easy way or the hard way if he decides to retaliate.
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