How should I break up with my boyfriend who lives far away?

He lives 1,000 miles away and I can't tell him to his face. What is best? the phone? This is extremely hard for me. I still love him and care for him, but can't be with him. He's not good for me. How do I break it to him gently?How should I break up with my boyfriend who lives far away?
email email email.How should I break up with my boyfriend who lives far away?
well i just did this yesterday


i had a boyfriend who lived in a different state and its very hard to be with him when he is so far away.


i called him and i told him i really loved him and i would love to be with him but it just wasn't working out because he'se so far away


and then i told him if we could keep talking and see what happens in the future and he was upset at first but we are still talking as great friends;]
Personally I think you should call him on the phone... Tell him that you can't believe that you are saying this and then tell him how you feel about him but you think that its just not good for you to be dating him if he is 1,000 miles away and you never see him.
However you normally communicate to each other. If you normally talk on the phone, do the phone routine (which is my best pick personally).





Texting and Email are other options, but believe me, unless you normally only email or text I consider it the chicken-way out.
email, if you do it by phone then its easier to hear the emotion in his voice or for you guys to get into a fight or something. email is much more simple, and it helps you think more clearly about what you want to say.
If you still love him and care for him, why break up with him? But if you do break up, do it in person. Not by Facebook or Bebo.
call him and see if you could meet one day. if not talk to him about it and tell him how you feel then brake up with him. but first make it clear why you want to brake up in the first place.
if u have texting, i would text him and tell him... im srry :'(

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How do i break up with my boyfriend?

I want to break up with my boyfriend, but i don't want to crush him in the process...he is a really nice guy but i think we are better off as friends.


i really need help//and by the way, he lives in my neighborhood, we have the same circle of friends and we go to the same school so it's going to be even harder since we see each other every day...any suggestions?? PLEASE HELP!!!How do i break up with my boyfriend?
Honesty is key, letting down a guy softly never works. Most guys prefer a woman to be honest and not sugar coat it, but since you have to see him every day, you could always ask to just stay friends. Don't stress out about this too much, it's happened to everyone and not a big deal! relationships often happen between people in the same social circle and unless it's a terrible brake up most people stay as friends.





All in all try to be honest, and don't hurt him unless you have to. Some guys are extremely clingy and the only way to get the message across is to make it loud and clear, but I think for you it's best to just be honest and try to be nice :)How do i break up with my boyfriend?
sit him down (not on a date) and tell him that ur not feeling what u felt when u first started dating. and that u need some space. tell him that there is a possibitity that u guys will date again. even if thats not true....tell him that u want to be friends and that ur sorry. also wait about a week before dating anyone else
just what you said - he is a really nice guy but i think we are better off as friends.





just tell him that, its true. say you really like him but you don't think its right to string him along when you like him better as a friend.
You just have to make it soft, quick, and honest. Say, ';You are a great guy, but I want us to be friends';. Or at least something to that effect.
either way he will be crushed, so just tell him face to face and woman up! and let him know u can do it the easy way or the hard way if he decides to retaliate.

How likely is it that a woman will break up with me if she knew I was a virgin at 30?

I'm 22 and still a virgin. I have good/great qualities as a potential boyfriend even over guys who are probably really good in bed, I think my chances of meeting a girl who'll accept me for the way I am are slim because of my problem. And no I'm not into one night stands and I'm not religious and have no intention to be.How likely is it that a woman will break up with me if she knew I was a virgin at 30?
She will like the fact that you're holding out for ';the one'; and not sleeping around.How likely is it that a woman will break up with me if she knew I was a virgin at 30?
Being a virgin is NOT a problem. Societal values sure have changed. I would value a man who protects his virginity and not sleep around with other girls because he thinks she's ';the one'; Holding out means that you cherish that experience as much as you will cherish your future wife.
She will respect that. Im 99% sure she will feel very special knowing that you have never been with anybody. It doesnt matter what your ';Problems'; are. There is somebody out there for you. Virgin or not.
women find that attractive if you are actually, genuinely holding out.


if you make it a ';problem'; then she will see there's something no good about you. maybe you're creepy or a pervert or you just have really bad hygiene!


she will be able to read you like a book.


as long as you are genuinely waiting for someone special you have nothing to fear. :)
who said they need to know?
depends on the girl. Some girls will rush for the nearest exit at 30. Others will see that as a valued asset. It all depends on her values.





At the same time, if you share that information and you want to sleep with her, she might panic because it would be a huge step in the relationship that she may or may not be ready for.





BTW: Plenty of people are virgins at 22, so you don't need to fret.
LOL... don't sweat it. If what you're saying it's true, most christian men will be doomed to die alone. Most girls will feel ';special'; knowing you're saving it for ';her';. If a girl indeed becomes turn off by the fact that you're a virgin by 30 or however old, she's probably a one night stander, which you're not into, so it's not going to be the girl you want either ways. Relax and take your time and live your life. Just go with the flow and keep trying.
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;I'm 22 and still a virgin.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;





Late bloomer. Makes no difference.


But people *do* judge you. And girls judge you the harshest because of one reason: they are allowed to choose from a vast pool of candidates. So they are confortable with being harsh, it costs them nothing.





Anyway, if it doesn't hurt them not to know, then you don't have to tell them.








%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;I think my chances of meeting a girl who'll accept me for the way I am are slim because of my problem. %26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;





I understand.


Then take care of your problem. Pick up the 200 dollars you'd spend on dinner dates with women who won't put out but will gladly accept your meal ticket and use it on a professional who knows her way around the bed better than they do.





There, problem solved. Are you better than when you started? No, because you're still too much stuck up. Case in point:


%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;I'm not into one night stands%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;





You sir are a fool. How can you have an opinion on something you haven't even tried?!


Go try on a few ONS and *then* make up your mind whether you want to continue it, 'mkay?








%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;I'm not religious and have no intention to be.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;





There's nothing wrong with religion. But I understand your problems with it: it's the religious people. Don't worry, Christianism would be a great religion if people actually practiced what it preaches. But I digress. They only have as much power over you as you let them.
As a woman who have values, I would say it is a turn on for me. I believe in sex after marriage and I would totally respect a guy like that especially in these times where most people are promiscuous who rush into bed and not holding onto their values and self-respect. I like a guy who doesn't sleep around with every women.





It really depends on the woman and what she believes in and her values in life. For me, sex is not everything...communication, friendship, compatibilty, chemistry and connection are more important.





Trust me it is not a problem at all, if you find a woman with values then she will like you more for having self-worth.
no i think thats pretty cool to find you, its rare to find a guy who is virgin nowdays..





just like me i stay virgin till marriage not bcoz religious reason but for my husband :)
Hopefully very likely. Women are only marriageable if they're virgins. If you date a woman and she is a virgin, and has no ';career aspirations';, you might have a keeper.

How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend for me?

There is this girl and we are good friends, and we talk all the time, and she said she likes me a lot , but she also likes her boyfriend.How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend for me?
what you need to do is show her that you are better then her current boyfriend.How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend for me?
You don't.





And just sayin, if she's willing to break up with her boyfriend to get with you, then she'll be willing to break up with you for some other guy who comes along too.

I want to break up with my boyfriend although i still love him? But i dont know how to?

We've been dating for 3 three months now. And our relationship now is not stable. We have not been talking for about 2 weeks now. Im not sure if he is cheating on me, because he is really close to this one girl and i have a feeling she likes him. She knows that i like him, so that is why she hates me now. So i was thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend, but i don't know how to say it to him.I want to break up with my boyfriend although i still love him? But i dont know how to?
Just let him know how you feel. Maybe he'll proof you wrong and you guys can find a way to stay together just think about what you really want and talk to him about it.I want to break up with my boyfriend although i still love him? But i dont know how to?
only 3 months? say, ';It's not working out, I don't feel as if we're stable and this can last, and I can't be in a relationship with you';.
just tell him...if you didnt tell him sooner u'll get more hurt!

How do I break up with my boyfriend? I don't want to hurt him but I don't know what else to do.?

Well when we text (thats all we do is text) like all he says is K. And we never get to see each other. I want to break up with him but I don't know how. How would you do it without hurting him? Thanks in advance! :)How do I break up with my boyfriend? I don't want to hurt him but I don't know what else to do.?
your just too softy the guy is so not interested in you i even don't know why your calling him '; my boyfriend'; just tell him you don't want him anymore basically cuz he's not doing what a loving boyfriend should do don't care much bout his feelings (cuz he doesn't care bout yours ) your not his puppet u know show no interests don't be weak be strong





n DON'T SMILE when your telling him this





good luck :)How do I break up with my boyfriend? I don't want to hurt him but I don't know what else to do.?
wow! wait........


all you guys do is text :(


man, you really do have to dump hm


well what i will do is just say


';hey we never really see each other and all we do is text';,


';it doesn't make sense having this relationship or whatever blah blah';


he will maybe he'll be like ';yea i guess you right';


you will be like ';yea, aren't i always?? jk jk'; you know end it off with a joke, make him laugh, so you guys can be friends without saying the old saying XD
It is impossible to break up with someone without one or both of them getting hurt in the process, that's just a part of relationships that one must go through in order to grow and mature.
just talk to him giving him the reasons why you think you should break up..but whatever you say do not end up the break up with the famous ';we can still be freinds'; phrase cuz i know they hate that!!

How to break up with my boyfriend meanly?!?

hi everyone


im a little pissed off right now


HOW do i break up with my boyfriend rudely and meanly


why? b cuz i found hes going out with my best friend


i was walking around and i saw them kissing but they didnt see me


HOW DO I DO IT?!How to break up with my boyfriend meanly?!?
burn everything he ever gave you and dump it on your ex bff in front of your bf. tell her what it is and then say '; you know what, you guys are both so horrible you really deserve each other.'; then never talk or take notice of either of them again. Be happy cuz neither of them are worth it and you found out before either of them hurt you any moreHow to break up with my boyfriend meanly?!?
Make Them No What They Did Was Wrong.


The next time you see them lip locking pretend you were shocked and cross your arms and say '; What the hell is going on here';


They will be speechless and then say '; You are such a dosh bag I don't deserve you! And you ( your best friend) your not my best friend your a slut!';


Then leave with your pride and dignity. You don't really deserve that you will find many men in your life!And friends like that are traders!
Oh my god, lol that happened to me.


I just would be like hey sexy, and act really sexy and stuff (even if your in mid scho) and act like insanely in to him, try to get together, then when ya'll go in for a kiss push him and tell him ya'll are over. BUT if you want to do it quikk call him and say ';Hey you know i got to thinking how you smell like moldy d*ck all the time, and that your teeth are kinda yellow, and you have bad breath, that i deserve better... We're done. Love ya b*tch :) have a nice day';


and then


*i know very taylor swifty* but like go out with his hottest friend *if he has one* or make sure to get another guy like right after and he has to be at least a rating of 5 points ahead of yo old ho bag man.


Hope I Helped :))
Don't stoop down to his level and do it to him back. Instead, forget about them or at least act like it. Act as if they never existed and go on with your life. Don't answer phone calls or anything. If you see them around, act as if you were happier without them. Trust me it works. People don't want someone until they are gone.
Start Of Stating A Point.


But Maybe Say...





Your Such A Dush. That's So Disrespectful Of You To Even Kiss My Best friend.


I Dont Want Nothing To Do With You. I Am So Embarrassed Of Even Looking At You Right Now.


We Are So Done. Period!
How about just taking the high road on this one and telling him it's over. I know it hurts right now and you are pissed, but you should think that you are better then that. Why stoop to his level.
OK txt him say hey baby hows it going? and when he says something bak say ive been wondering lately are u dating soemone else? and if he denies or says yes, either way, say U RETARD I KNOW U KISSED ME BFF! HOW COULD U! UR SUCH A CHEATER OR PLAYER! I HATE U B**CH! GET A LIFE AND STAY OUT OF MINE! WE ARE THROUGH!!
Why sink to his/their level?


End it and show both of them nothing but total and complete indifference! It takes emotional energy to act rude and mean. Don't waste that energy on either of them!

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How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?

My best friend has been going out with this guy for 6 months. But he has been treating her like trash. He hangs out with this other girl that he also likes instead of her, and text her that hes hanging out with another person, just to get her sad. its been goin on for almost 3 months. my best friend has been really sad but doesnt want to tell her boyfriend. i dont think she deserve it. what should i do?How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?
You got any nice guy friends?





If you are still in HS, seek out a group of guys that look like ';good guy'; types and propose the situation to them. Tell them who she is and how it's going down and ask them if any of them would be up to the job of trying to show her how a gentleman should act or at least talk to her about the guy. Have them approach her in a natural way, not mention you, get into conversation about her boyfriend. Even if she says he treats her well when they ask, if she is made to think on it once or twice, she aught to be able to at least feel sick about him and that she had the chance to tell another guy she was single... Passed up a fresh start.





If one group fails, try another or ask your friends if they know any good men who will ';have a chat'; with her at least. If all else fails, it is not your problem, I am sorry to say. Stay away from the drama. Allowing someone to lean on you can make some people feel like they can ';hang in there'; longer, so withdrawing your support can sometimes be the only way.





Good luck to you both. I hope it turns out for the best.How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?
but also i cant really let her know that im tryin to do this.

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On Magician's Quest: Mysterious Times how do you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

On Magician's Quest: Mysterious Times how do you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend? i can't figure out ow to break up with my boyfriend but i really want to! so tell me how plz!On Magician's Quest: Mysterious Times how do you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
i think you just have to ignore them.


i haven't had a boyfriend in the game yet..but i think i read somewhere that you just ignore them

How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?

ive been dating this guy for about 8 months, and i want to end it, and im not quite sure how to do it without him blowing my phone up with texts/calls or coming to my house...anyone have any ideas to help me?How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?
All you can do is explain to him why you want to end the relationship. Be honest but respectful when you tell him, after all wouldn't you want him to be the same way? Hopefully he will accept it and move on. If he calls your phone, don't answer it. Maybe eventually he will get the hint. If he shows up at your home repeatedly or is in anyway abusive, tell him that you will press stalking charges (yes, there is a such thing) on him.





I'm hoping though, that he's not that type of guy. He may surprise you and take it better than you are thinking.How do i break up with my boyfriend without him becoming a psycho stalker?
If you really worry about this, you should have broken up with him a very long time ago, like 7 1/2 months ago. However, one can never be entirely sure how another person can react. All you can do is control yourself, not him. You have to lay it out to him, without accusing him of anything, but be firm and honest, without being mean or selfish. If he writes you too much or texts you too much, you can block emails, cell phone numbers, etc. If worse comes to worse, there is always the police.
The idea is to break up with him gently tell him that its not working and that you really want things be cool between you guys. Tell him that you don't want to be in a relationship now, and tell him not to stalk you because you won't change your mind about it. Tell him that this is the best decision to make for you and him, be nice about it. If he calls/texts you nonstop don't answer either one and don't receive him if he appears at your house, have one of your parents or someone say you're not home, either that or don't answer the door. Let things cool off btw u and him.
to me, you sound pretttty cocky. he could want to break up with you as much as you want to break up with him. just because you break up with a guy dosent mean there still gonna be obsessed with you and dosent mean he is gonna be a stalked. im suprised you got a boyfriend in the first place
i kno this sounds rly rly dumb and stupid but jus make him not lik u ..show him ur weird or wtvr and that ur not the type of girl hes lookn 4.. thats the nicest way 2 do it,,


iv done it once and he ended up not talkn 2 me ever..he was a big perve anyways but rly sweet.. but its wtvr.,
hm mm tuff..!


say ur ganna go on a vacation for a few weeks


and ur phone isn't ganna work where u go.!


or just put ur foot down really tuff and let him know how u feel!


let him know ur serious and if he blows up ur phone just ignore his call or block his number from ur phone so his call cant go through!
Anyway, you must talk to him. Explain your situation, your point of view.
Come to a mutual agreement, see if he thinks it is time too end it too. Meet up at yours and just talk about it and wjhy you think it is best
Do it slowly, like act as boring as possible, or show no interest and be lazy not want to do anything, get on his nerves. it will only take him a few day to realize he wont want to be with you.
DUMP HIM, if he keeps bugging you, tell everyone (most importantly the cops).





%26amp; give me a call:):p
Has he acted like that before giving you reason to believe he will? If texts and calls are the worst he will do just break up with him and block his calls or change your number.
make arrangments to break up with him and then block him number from your phone.. You won't feel so bad because you would have broken up with him in advance.
Nope. That's what you get for wanting to date such a guy. You takes your chances. Next time pick a nice guy to date.
Just be honest but be as nice as possible.
Just be honest and don't respond to his messages, he'll get tired of doing it and just stop.
maybe he wants to break up with you but is having troubles for the same reason.
Let him down gently....then change your number and move house...
Tell him you're moving!
blame it on your parents, it works every time.
just tell him that you are lesbian
just tell him i need to find myself and i think we should take a brake form each other

How to break up with your boyfriend?

I'm fourteen and i've been going out with this guy for a month. He is really sweet but we go to different schools so i see him maybe once a week if I'm lucky. Recently made out with this guy I've been in love with for two years but he also has a girlfriend of 11 months. I told my boyfriend and he forgave me but I can't seem to be able to forget about it and I don't really like my boyfriend anymore. How do I let him down?How to break up with your boyfriend?
Invest in your love and to be happy.


Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.How to break up with your boyfriend?
You're 14. You shouldn't be making out, especially with someone who has a girlfriend. As for your question, just tell him that you're sorry but your feelings have changed, and you just want to be friends.
Tell him that your 14, dating for a month, and dont go to the same school....its not a big deal.

How to break up with obsessive boyfriend?

I have come to the point that I have lost intrest in him. He is really annoying and always wants to have sex and attention. He is kind of suicidal in a way. I have broken up with him before for 3 months but he was ridiculous. He kept calling me and texting me so I had to change my number. Even my Email adress and everything. He always says I'm the only one he loves. But it's so annoying! How can I lay him off easily?How to break up with obsessive boyfriend?
it sounds like easy is not the way to go with this guy, cut the strings harshly so he gets the message loud and clear

What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend?

I've been meaning to do it for a long time. I was actually planning on doing it yesterday, but my friend went up to me and told me that I was all he talked about yesterday.. I feel really bad, but I just don't want to string him along any longer. So how to I cut him off in a nice way?What's the best way to break up with your boyfriend?
There's really never a right or wrong way to end a relationship. But honesty can go a long way toward making the breakup as painless as possible. Don't get into any long, drawn out discussions about your reasons, just let it be known that you have made up your mind and that you wish him all the best in life. It won't be easy at first for him to accept, but over time the hurt will ease and he will be able to move on. I wish you the best. Peace

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I broke up with my boyfriend and now I really miss him. How can I stay strong?

I broke up with him because he was acting like a complete jerk. He's a sweetheart but I wanted to teach him a lesson. This happened yesterday and I figured he would call by now, but he hasn't. I really really miss him, but I will rather be without him than deal with a complete a**hole. How can I stay strong n not get a hold of him?I broke up with my boyfriend and now I really miss him. How can I stay strong?
The purpose of dating is to get to know people and how to behave in a relationship.


He is failing by acting like a jerk.


You are also failing by not addressing the problem, and acting like a jerk yourself in the process. Sound like you two are a match.





If you tell him he is acting like a jerk and that you don't want to be around him when he is like that then, he has a choice to make. Act like a jerk and not be with you or not act like one and be with you.





By braking up, you have effectively cut off all communication and haven't learned how to deal with this behavior. His acting like a jerk is temporary (hopefully) your acting like a jerk (by breaking up over it) is definite. On top of that, you are now mixing in pride. You don't want to call him cause it would be an admission that you made a mistake (which you did).





You tell me who sounds like they need more help?





Do the right thing. Call him and tell him how he makes you feel when he acts like a jerk.

How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

Everytime we talk about something he is always like if you dont start speaking up im hanging up and we are done or if you go hang out with your friend zac we are done. Its like he is threatening me and I dont know what to do. I mean like I want to but everytime its always like he is hurting himself when im talking to him by punching the door and cutting himself....and it changes my mind. What do I do?How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
You need to worry about yourself. Your boyfriend is mentally unstable. He is the one hurting you, and he's guilt tripping you everytime you try to leave him. Nobody has any right to tell you that you can't hang out with your friends. If he claims that if you hang out with Zac then it's over, go ahead and do it. He's making you miserable. If he wants to punch a door and cut himself, he can go ahead and do it, that doesn't mean he has to drag you down with him! It is not your fault he does this. He needs to get some professional help, and I'm not trying to sound like a smart *** or anything, I'm being serious. Good luck.How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
First thought, toxic relationship. Ask yourself, are you putting more into the relationship than your b/f? Life is about balance. Suggest he needs to get help if you truly believe he is self-destructive, and that until he does, you and he are not to be. Never compromise your values and how you like to be treated for anyone or anything. Be strong, and stronger... He might realize he needs to grow a little or straighten out some stuff before he can be with someone. Again, don't compromise what you want out of life for anything or anyone. I'm sure there are a hundred-plus that would rejoice the opportunity to know you better than just as friends. Take care, and don't think of leaving him as hurting him, rather helping him become a better person. Just don't do it in a cheap way, such as an e-mail, or phone call, rather in person. It shows great care and respect when you talk like humans face to face. Good Luck!
to brake it too him softly but not leaving anything to his imagine, say you don't want to stay in a relationship with him, that he is just not the right person for you. tell him he has great potentional but he has to stop being so dramatic, tell him one relationship is nothing compared to life. say that you will both move on and have the rest of your life to meet people, so that he might as well save himself pain and accept the fact. trying to put it in perspective will really help. also tell him that if he is going to try and make you feel guilty its not going to work, in that he has bigger problems he needs to deal with before a relationship anyways. then I would suggest anonymously telling a parent or counselor if you go to the same school that he is cutting, this is extremely crucial, even though he is probably doing it for attention if you don't tell someone and he kills himself it will be on your shoulders for the rest of your life, a little relationship that would have meant nothing could haunt you forever, it will be in a way closure to let his family know so that its not in your hands at all anymore. that way they can help him and you can have a free-er conscious. either way you have to live for yourself, and in a way you are doing him a favor too anyways.
Tell him how you feel, holding all these feelings in is never a good thing you might even end up hating him if you keep holding it in. Just be nice about it don't scream at him or go off on him just sit with him normal and talk about it tell him what bothers you why and how you feel and if you don't want to tell him in person give him a letter or by the phone but person to persons better. Hope this helps
Okay, you need to leave this relationship as swiftly as you can. It seems like he's blackmailing you, and being emotionally abusive. Also it's like he's jealous. You don't need someone like that in your life. Just tell him, ';Look, I think we need some time alone to think of where this relationship is going.'; If he throws a fit, then you need to leave. Just leave.
hey,y do u think break up.he is perfect,if u love more than the world,u must behave like him.so try o understand his situation then think abt him,break up is a simple matter,bt later u must feel abt that.so think urself.it is better,dont take decision while u tens.o best of luck,ry to love him,if u love truely,though he does mistake,u will take it easy.so understand,dont be hurry.
I think you should tell his mum or a close family member that can help him. Get him to see a psychiatrist or someone that can get him straight in the head. After he looks less suicidal, break up with him. People like him can drag you down with them and your life ends up getting wasted.


:)
You won't be able to.


Might as well marry him and have his kids against your will.
Take him up on his offer. Talk to Zac, he's just looking for attention and misery loves company. If you felt bad for everyone for something you'd get nowhere in life, especially with this looney loser.
Thats because he is trying to grip that handle of control on you so you wont leave him,


be warned after control comes abuse.
you need to leave, life is too short to spend it with someone you dont love and arent happy with, if you dont love him anymore, then what exactly are you waiting for?, your only hurting him more.














GL !
if hes hurting himself, its just a way to make you feel guilty %26amp; stay with him. its a bad idea to be in a relationship with someone who acts the way you described. just end it to make things easier on you.
Just be honest and tell it to him like it is. He is an idiot and you respect yourself enough to know that you are worth more and deserve better than him!
u both try 2 have a conversation on this matter, find out where the problem is, u both must try 2 understand eachother, and when its ur turn 2 speak out the things just dont b harsh at ur language try 2 b calm nd polite
Andrey is right.


He isn't the one for you.


You don't deserve to be held down, it's clearly not progressing so what's the point.


Good luck :)
He sounds like a possessive weirdo. I'd dump him if I were in your shoes. Don't worry about hurting him. If we all worried about hurting every ones feelings we would never get anything done.
this kid cuts himself and threatens you, what the hell are your with him for, get out NOWWWW!!!!
Turn up with your new boyfriend, that should tip him right over the edge.


Jesus H Christ, just tell him he is a loser and is blackmailing you.
2 simple lines.....This are`nt working out....I can`t see you anymore....Say that and let the chips fall where they may....
well when he says if you do this we are through just say kep we are though bye and hang up is really simple like everyone else


ITS NOT GOOD


so dump is sorry butt and find someone better :)
Just dump him, he is not right for you. Just tell him in person that you two are through. That's it. Good luck!
then just hang out with zac till he dumps u..so then he wont be hurt..coz he dumped. :S
you go on with this abusive relationship:You will have no one to blame but yourself
my ex was the same way... just sing or send him this... it may not be true but itll make him feel better and at some point god might give him some one who is better for him then you and can handle him better but the whole black mailing you thing is lame ... break ups hurt but youll both get over it














Just Fine';





Heeyy, uh, ummmm, heey, oh girl, oh girl





We did everything we could do


To try to make it work (we did, we did)


Baby, you look so confused, cause it feels like, there was no way we could lose (no way, no way)


Baby, I just don't know why I can't find the things you need in me (I can't, I can't girl)


Baby, they know just know what to say, they trying to break us away from one another, but maybe their right for a change





I think, God will give you someone,


Much better than me, trust me


Your eyes will be O.K. it will be alright.


You'll be just fine (just fine, just fine)





I know that baby we would disagree constantly on the basic things (we did, we did)


You thought that there was someone else, all along (no way, no way)


Baby I want to decide to stay right by your side


Baby, they know just what to say.


They wanna keep us away from one another


But Maybe they're right for a change





I think, God will give you someone,


Much better than me, trust me


Your eyes will be O.K. (O.K.), alright (alright), just fine (just fine)





I know, baby, baby, baby can't you see that another fella just may be the kinda man that you need


You deserve it and I know that


I know another love has come your way, just listen to me when I say


You'll find him (you'll find him) be patient





I think, God will give you someone,


So much better than me, trust me


Your eyes will be O.K., it will alright, it will be just fine (just fine)





(Cause I know that baby)


I think, God will give you someone (someone better),


Better than me, trust me girl


(no more pain) O.K.,


(no more pain) Alright,


It will be just fine (just fine)





Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey


(You wanna know why I'm sure)


(sure, sure)

How should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?

He is really important to me becase he was my first kiss and we have had geat tims 2gether but iam starting to like someone else.He likes me alot and i dont want him 2 end up being heart broken.How should i break up with him? plz HelpHow should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
Girl, i have the same problem right now! And i guess you know to, that it is reallly hard. I guess all you can do is tell him that it would be soo much better if yall were just friends soo yall don't get in to any sort of fight or something. Be sure to tell him how you feel so that he knows..It will make him feel better.. Good Luck!How should i Break Up with my Boyfriend?
Either way, he's gonna get his heart broken.


And there is nothing you can do about it.


So just tell him how you feel and that hes still important to you but you only see him as a friend now. He'll eventually move on.

How should i break up with my boyfriend?

im not sure how to, should i break up with him by a text, if he asked me out on myspace??


im not sure what to do. please help!!How should i break up with my boyfriend?
The best way is to tell him in person, even though it's hard to, but put it in a nice way, tell him that you guys could still be close friends. Even though you break-up with someone, it doesn't mean you guys can't be friends :)How should i break up with my boyfriend?
well i don't kno the situation but it would probably be more productive if you do it in person. it most likely wouldnt give the right impression of you if you did it electronically. be a woman about yourself and handle it confidently. make sure to let him kno why too so hes not confused or anything
Never break up with someone over the phone, text, chat, etc. Even if you don't want to meet that person, and even if that's the easiest way, it's the meanest and rudest way.


Just ask him to meet up somewhere, and break up with him in person. Good luck!





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this is what i have learned. never say ';we need to talk'; because when men hear those words they shut down or try to come up with a lie to whatever you are about to ask them. so, instead say hey hun or baby, ';lets go hang out'; get him to a public place, and just discuss the issue at hand. Be calm try not to yell. it works trust me
you should get some crazy neck tattoos and make drunken phone calls to his father telling him that you find him much more attractive than his son... ask to borrow his car and then crash it.... pee in a baking tray and freeze it so you have a frozen sheet of urine and then slide it under his door so it melts on his carpet... that should about do it... maybe eat one of his pets if he has any
If you break up with him via MySpace or text message, you're a horrible person. He deserves the dignity of being told in person. If you want out of the relationship, show some respect and do it the right way!
well either way thats a bad way to start in a relationship over myspace or text...even worse to do it that way. tell him face to face. or if you have to over the phone(even tho thats not a great way either) dont text or email....contact is the way to go
Oh girl, you listen here to ol' Clitora and you listen good. Dump him in person baby, but be honest. If he don't know how to put it down then tell him baby. Ol Clitora can teach him a thing or two..send him my way baby.
well you can do it one of these three ways.





u can be more mature by doing it in person.


you can do it by text


or on the phone


but never ever ever break up with someone over myspace
Myspace is low. Text isn't that great and phone call is not good. Person is the only way it should be done bc you see his immediate rea tion %26amp; make the whole thing easier.
break up with him nicely in person alone, or he will resent you and spread rumors about you forever!
Definitely not over text or the phone... I've learned that the hard way :) Just kinda...talk to him and say you think you two need to take a break, I guess. :) Good luck.
Text. If he asked you out on Myspace I think it would be fair to break up with him by text.
Be the more mature bigger person and do it to his face, just tell him its not working out anymore
To be respected at all as a human being, you should do it to his face. Text-breakup is so despicable.

How do i break up with my boyfriend?

Weve been going out for two weeks and it is just awkward all the time that im with him. My friends say that hes usually shy when its just him and someone else, or when im around, but that hes usually very outgoing around other people. i dont know how to tell him i want to break up.How do i break up with my boyfriend?
Take him aside, privately, and tell him face to face that you don't want to date anymore.


Simple, quick, to the point.

How do I break up with my boyfriend of less than a week? Is it too soon?

I know I may sound selfish and stupid, but I've only been with him for less than a week and I want to call it off. It's not him, but I'm just not ready to be in a relationship. He told me he really likes me and I didn't want to break his heart so I said yes when he asked me. Is it too soon to call it off?How do I break up with my boyfriend of less than a week? Is it too soon?
not to soon to call it off, better now than later sweetie, you have to just tell him how you feel and do it soonHow do I break up with my boyfriend of less than a week? Is it too soon?
girl go, selfish is not the word! the fact that you are concerned about hurting him is the exact opposite. with that being said if you dont want a relationship dont get into 1. let him know hes a cool guy whatever but right now your just not in the right state of mind for a relationship, itd be cool to be friends for awhile first and than maybe later on when you get your mind right you can try again, but for now you wanna be solo. never do something you dont want to do cause in the long run this is your life..nobody elses and you hafta live it. so live it the way you want. you dont hafta be selfish to be happy. =)
Pfftt. you can call it off whenever you want to.. just say you're not ready.. and that's that.
Say, ';I don't know if this is working out. I just don't feel ready for a relationship right now.';

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How should I break up with my boyfriend?

My boyfriend's a really nice guy, but I feel we should just be friends. This is the first relationship for both of us %26amp; he's really obsessed with me. I mean, he wrote my name on his knuckles. I don't want things to be awkward between us, but this isn't working out.How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Once you break up with a guy, then you are unlikely to remain good friends with him. Because breaking up does hurt people's feelings.





If you no longer want to be his girlfriend. Then tell him that honestly. And your relationship with him will be over, unless it takes some time for him to realize that you really mean it and you are not joking.How should I break up with my boyfriend?
be honest, tell him you like him and he's a nice guy but you just don't feel any chemistry there, you don't think about him in a romantic way.
Just tell it to him face to face, or on the phone. Just dont txt it, youll come across as a jerk.
tell him its not working out and you dont wanna date.
if your not comfortable hes not worth it